Introduction: This week I am thrilled to share with you a reflection of an alum who has written many FMMs over the years, Bob Singer. Bob was a resident in the UMass Family Practice Residency Program from 1978 to 1981 when the Family Health Center of Worcester was called the Family Health and Social Service Center. As we enter our 50th year celebration for the department, we welcome more stories, poems and reflections from alumni. In this piece, Bob offers some sage advice about giving advice.